Did you get the house in the divorce settlement? While it’s convenient that you don’t have to pack up and move, the house can be a painful reminder of your ex.
It’s no secret that getting divorced is an expensive affair, especially if the relationship doesn’t end on good terms. You have to pay for a number of expenses, including a divorce attorney and the process to change your name.
In that case, selling your house may not be a financially feasible option. However, you have the freedom to redecorate the house and make it your own. And here’s how you can do that.
Start By Decluttering
Even if your ex has moved out, it’s quite possible that they haven’t taken all their things. Understandably, going through their stuff can be overwhelming and triggering. But who said you have to do it all alone? We urge you to invite a few friends over to help you declutter and pack all your ex’s belongings.
Remove Sentimental Items
From photographs to wedding china, there might be a number of sentimental items that remind you of your former relationship. It would be best to remove and pack up these things. However, don’t throw these things out, especially if you have kids. You can store them until you find a more permanent solution.
Do a Deep Clean
It’s no secret that cleaning can feel therapeutic. Doing a deep clean is a way to give yourself a symbolic and literal fresh start. If that feels like too much work or emotionally distressing, you should consider hiring a house cleaning service for the task.
Repaint Your Walls
Repainting your walls is one of the easiest and most affordable ways to make your interiors feel brand new. The colours of your home also influence your mood. For example, muted tones will help you feel calm, while bright tones will fill you with energy.
Rearrange Furniture
Something as simple as rearranging your furniture can make your home look and feel different. And the best part? It doesn’t cost a thing. So bring some pieces from your bedroom into the living area and vice-versa.
Ensure Security
Whether you are staying alone after decades or dealing with an abusive ex, equip your home with a dependable security system for your peace of mind. In addition to changing the locks, install an alarm system.
Swap Pieces
Is the living room couch something you and your ex bought together? Since buying new furniture can be expensive, you can save more by selling your old pieces and using the money to buy second-hand furniture. Facebook Marketplace and charity shops are great spots for finding unique pieces for your home.
Add Greenery
Adding indoor plants to your home can revitalise your interiors and add a pop of colour. Moreover, growing plants can be gratifying and give you something to focus on.
Get New Bedding
It can be difficult to sleep on a bed you shared with your former spouse. That’s why you should consider changing the headboard and getting new bedding to transform the space.
Make It Relaxing
From aromatic diffusers to dim lighting, add relaxing elements to your space. When you feel better, you should invite friends and family over.
Final Words
In addition to making your formerly shared space feel new, redecorating your house is also a way to keep yourself busy while you’re healing. Hopefully, the aforementioned tips help you reinvent your interiors without spending a fortune.
April 2022
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